I Cheated – Will My Man Take Me Back?
You’ve been caught cheating on your man and now you want to know what you can do to get him back. If only it were that simple. You see, mending broken relationships is not a one size fits all science. It is, to a large degree, an art form. The good news is that art has all sorts of connoisseurs. There are those that like the more abstract art that makes no sense at all to others. Some like clean and crisp lines that are fitting for modern pieces. Others enjoy the classics and some people continue to look for works of art that tell a story on the canvas.
So what do you need to do so you can get your boyfriend back and begin working on your masterpiece together? He is going to have expectations you can live up to. There’s no such thing as a perfect person but the odds are good that he expects you to be pretty darned close to perfect.
Start over with a blank canvas.
Cheating dirties up the landscape of your canvas. Now is a good time to go all the way back to the drawing board and figure out a new concept together.
Acknowledge his contributions to the marriage and make him acknowledge yours as well. You’re often quick to let him know when he’s let you down. Often let your boyfriend know when he’s made you proud or even just made you glad to be a part of his life.
State your case clearly on the canvas so there is little doubt about your intentions. He doesn’t read minds and may not know your heart or intentions as well as you’d like to think. This is not the time to make him guess or hope he figures it out. Tell him in no uncertain terms and leave no room for doubt.
You aren’t ready to give up on the love you share. Love is a powerful thing.
It shouldn’t be taken lightly. The love you have for your boyfriend isn’t something you can turn off simply because you’ve betrayed him by cheating. Ask for that second chance from your boyfriend and give your relationship the opportunity to be what it has the potential to be.
Now is the time to take action to get your ex boyfriend back but don’t try this at home until you’ve put this one super tip to the test.